By Sami Banks | Margo’s Place rural advocate
Experiencing dating violence in youth can have long-lasting impacts, making it all the more important to prevent violence before it occurs. By promoting healthy relationship norms and supporting survivors, we can lessen the impact of violence and prevent further victimization.
According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, over 70% of women and 60% of men who experienced sexual or physical violence, or stalking, first experienced it before the age of 25. Additionally, one in four women first experienced intimate partner violence prior to the age of 18, and nearly half of women who experienced rape were victimized as minors.
As a parent or caregiver, one important step in prevention is recognizing the warning signs. These may include extreme jealousy or possessiveness from a partner, unexplained marks, bruises, or injuries, withdrawal from friends and family, depression or anxiety, and constant emails, texts, or calls from a partner.
A healthy relationship is one in which individuals feel safe, respected, and supported in being themselves. If something feels concerning, it’s important to seek guidance from a trusted professional, school counselor, or local support organization. Early support can make a meaningful difference.
If you or someone you know may be experiencing dating violence, confidential help is available. Call the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 866-331-9474. In an emergency, call 911.


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